Tragedy strikes

When David came back from his battle with the Amalekites, a young man arrived with bad news.

The Philistines had attacked Saul’s army on the mountain of Gilboa. The fighting was fierce, and in the chaos of battle, an arrow hit and wounded Saul. Saul killed himself by falling on his own sword. Jonathan and his brothers also died in the battle, together with those who had not fled.

When David heard about the death of Saul and Jonathan, he tore his clothes and cried bitterly until evening.

How can I comfort a friend when someone has died?

You would probably feel a little uneasy talking to a friend who has lost someone through death. It may seem out of place to talk about everyday things, and yet it may also feel awkward to talk about death. When you meet your friend, you don’t have to feel or look as sad as they do—what matters is showing real care.

Sometimes it is best not to say too much, but just to sit quietly together. Your friend will feel your love even if you don’t say much. If your friend wants to talk, you could ask them what they loved most about the person, or invite them to share some happy memories they remember.

You can tell your friend how it makes you feel to see them so sad. You can also remind them that God loves them very much and understands their pain. Encourage them to talk to God about how they feel. If your friend doesn’t feel like praying, you could ask if it would be okay to pray for them. Pray that God will help them to feel His great love, and thank Him for the hope we have of being together one day in heaven.

Verse for today

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. Psalm 23:4

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